My ex, who still (kind of anyway) still lives with me, has a new fella. recently, he was taken ill, and somehow or other (no need for details) his coat has ended up at my place. the question is, i can use the coat and do him some damage, magically and psychologicaly. how is none the matter. do i do it or not? i have also been feeling pretty destructive recently as well, since before she and i split up in fact. so, do i cause him this pain and anguish, and thereby her as well (which i have no real wish to inflict upon her, we ended amicably, and i still care for her deeply) or not? bear in mind, she can be spared this pain, and i also know that the problem here maybe repressed anger and rage, brought forth by rejection and petty jealousy which is pathetic and serves no purpose. he is also an ar*se, an opinion other have formed well before me.
right, just top clear things up a bit, i don’t feel hurt or hard done by with her leaving me. it was a mutual split. i still love her dearly as a friend, and wish her all the best. as for him and who am i to judge? that sounds like quoting ‘let him without sin cast the first stone’. my reply is judge not lest ye be judged. i am willing to be judged, therfore i will judge and do whjat i please. do what thou wilt!
i am vindictive by nature, always have been. should i be the evil bastard i always have been or not?
To the Rude people "answering" this question:
Since this is the Religion and Spirituality section, this question IS in the right place. It’s not the anti-religion section and it’s not the Christians Only section.
Prayer and Magic both work when done properly. You don’t have to believe that, but it’s rude to go into a section that’s primarily for people who believe in such things and then tell them they’re all idiots or crazy. How would you like it if you were posting in the Pets section and people kept telling you dogs and cats are stupid, dirty and only good for eating?
To the Questioner:
Don’t do it. Be the better man. Return his coat without harm and without a spell on it. Then pray or do spellwork to help yourself get over your loss and move on. If he’s and A$$, she’ll figure it out soon enough. I do believe karma comes around eventually.
If you are feeling anger and rage, one thing I’ve found helps is burning a black candle and pouring your anger into it. If you wanted to, you could probably use that anger energy to fuel a spell, but you’ll likely be happier in the long run if you don’t use it to harm someone.
Maybe you could use it to do a spell for your ex to see how big and a$$ this guy really is, though. That wouldn’t technically be harmful, but it would probably make you feel better.
Best Wishes,
- P.
how does repressed anger from childhood affect someone? and does this cause health problems usually?
November 16th, 2009 at 10:44 pm
wrong section !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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November 16th, 2009 at 11:10 pm
put some fire ants in his coat, then give it back to him.
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November 16th, 2009 at 11:27 pm
The only way you could do damage to him with that coat is to strangle him with it. Coats don’t make good weapons.
I suppose you could cause him some angst by just cutting up the coat, if it’s one he likes. Of course, he could sue you for the cost of the coat, especially if it’s an expensive one.
Magic and paranormal stuff is just crap to get people to part with their dollars.
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November 17th, 2009 at 12:14 am
You’ll do him/her the same damage by praying than by putting the whammy on them: NONE! Maybe, you should just think about moving on with your own life
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November 17th, 2009 at 12:53 am
Doing such things will bring you more pain and harm than it ever will him. Just let it be. If he is as bad as you say his true colors will show and you will be the better man.
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November 17th, 2009 at 1:30 am
Well, do you want to make your decision based on the temporary hurt and pain you are feeling? I am not trying to minimize the pain of what you are going through– it sounds pretty bad all ways around. However, is this going to make you feel good for now and then miserable later on?
Try to keep the end in mind, not just the tiny steps taken to get there, and I hope things get better for you soon.
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November 17th, 2009 at 1:44 am
Don’t. Instead, just give him the freakin’ coat. You have no right to judge whether someone deserves something or not.
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November 17th, 2009 at 1:59 am
You need to get a life and stop the insanity.
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November 17th, 2009 at 2:16 am
You lost my interest the moment I read the word "magically".
Try your luck in another section.
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November 17th, 2009 at 3:00 am
Your verbiage is a bit scant. Could you add a little more to help us understand??? LOL
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November 17th, 2009 at 3:09 am
If you have the power to do some harm, why not turn it around and do some good for the fellow, especially if he has taken ill recently. It might not benefit you directly but perhaps the world will turn around and do you some good for such a selfless act and you might feel better that you took your anger and frustration by the reigns and decided to control your own destiny instead of allowing your emotions to control them for you.
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November 17th, 2009 at 3:45 am
The best revenge you can dish out is to return the coat and act like nothing is wrong and you are not angry and hurt over your girlfriend’s rejection over you, and find another girlfriend. You will hurt yourself a lot worse than you hurt his coat, and you will feel like a fool afterwards.
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November 17th, 2009 at 4:06 am
Be the bigger man & simply return the coat. I would ask the girl to move out & move on. I would return the coat without any damage, because what goes around…comes around.
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November 17th, 2009 at 4:40 am
simple … would u want to have any thing like what u are thinking for him ……… to be done to u?
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November 17th, 2009 at 5:09 am
NO,do not do anything distructive.
Remember what goes around comes around, your bad actions will comeback biting you in the ass.
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November 17th, 2009 at 5:39 am
My advice…..give the coat back and be done. I mean, in the end it is your choice, just consider how ready you are for it to come back to you threefold……cause it will. Do what you will, but don’t complain when it comes back and bites you in the a$$!
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November 17th, 2009 at 6:01 am
Stop being so childish. And boot her out, btw. You’re broken up, that means she needs to get out.
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November 17th, 2009 at 6:24 am
Be Yourself, what would the ‘real’ you do? The less concern or agitation you display the more attractive you may become to her. The biggest turn off to women is childish behavior in a man…. I’m only being honest.
There is nothing more attractive than an understanding and calm man, it is a sign of strength.
Still, do what your heart is telling you to do.
The best revenge is to live happily and joyfully, no kidding! For some reason former friends are offended when they find out that ‘whoever’ is living joyfully…
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Try not being evil, as you say, for a change, you might like it!
November 17th, 2009 at 6:32 am
As Jesus said after ‘let him without sin throw the first stone’
‘go and sin no more’ turn and repent of all your sins and do not harm him or this woman lest he ‘heap burning coals upon your head’
Lord help her, amen.
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November 17th, 2009 at 6:45 am
To the Rude people "answering" this question:
Since this is the Religion and Spirituality section, this question IS in the right place. It’s not the anti-religion section and it’s not the Christians Only section.
Prayer and Magic both work when done properly. You don’t have to believe that, but it’s rude to go into a section that’s primarily for people who believe in such things and then tell them they’re all idiots or crazy. How would you like it if you were posting in the Pets section and people kept telling you dogs and cats are stupid, dirty and only good for eating?
To the Questioner:
Don’t do it. Be the better man. Return his coat without harm and without a spell on it. Then pray or do spellwork to help yourself get over your loss and move on. If he’s and A$$, she’ll figure it out soon enough. I do believe karma comes around eventually.
If you are feeling anger and rage, one thing I’ve found helps is burning a black candle and pouring your anger into it. If you wanted to, you could probably use that anger energy to fuel a spell, but you’ll likely be happier in the long run if you don’t use it to harm someone.
Maybe you could use it to do a spell for your ex to see how big and a$$ this guy really is, though. That wouldn’t technically be harmful, but it would probably make you feel better.
Best Wishes,
- P.
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