What do I do. Like today I was baking cookies, but there were only four. And my bigger brother took his half, so when my dad asked for some, I said "There weren’t enough .."
Then he said "What the f-ck! Stupid."
Like, seriously, what the hell is up with him, I’m tired of putting up with his attitude. He CAN be nice, but his bad always overcomes the good ..
There’s other things he does like emotional abuse, he used to do physical, but we learned to actually contact the police if he ever does, and my bigger brother can take him down easily ..
Because of this attitude, I usually become a little agressive and talk back and do stupid things. I’m not saying it’s his fault I wanna break the rules, but because of his actions, it seems only fair I get to do stupid actions too.
But I don’t want to help him..he’ll only get mad if we take him conselling. Truth is, I don’t know if I’ll be even depressed if he died. He’s done so much emotional abuse that it’s hard to give sympathy ..
My question is, should I just suck it up ? Trust me, I don’t want a face-to-face talk, he’ll think I’m retarded.
Like for example, I was crying really hard because my friend got into a car accident, all he said was
"Stop crying and dramatic. You’re a liar, you’re lying."
That made me SO mad. ..
your dad seems like mine usto be
you dont want him to die trust me on that one
just try to avoid him is all i can say, thats all i could do cause i just couldnt take it anymore
im sorry
October 28th, 2009 at 5:06 am
your dad seems like mine usto be
you dont want him to die trust me on that one
just try to avoid him is all i can say, thats all i could do cause i just couldnt take it anymore
im sorry
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been there
October 28th, 2009 at 5:37 am
My dad can be the same way, exept it’s my whole family.
Let me talk to your dad, I will knock some sense into him.
Don’t give him sympathy, ever, even if he’s your dad. He’s not acting like it. He’s being a bully.
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October 28th, 2009 at 6:15 am
no body has to take any abuse regardless if its physical or verbal, it’s still abuse, and the mind takes alot longer to heal than bruses do. Your father might be upset if you do take him to see someone professionally, but in the long run, it’ll be the best thing that you could do, not only for yourself, buut for the whole family. Good Luck, C
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October 28th, 2009 at 6:26 am
Contact the state and have him investigated.
They will put you into a foster home and you won’t have to deal with him again.
You will most likely get moved from foster home to foster home over the years until you are older and than you and your brother can re-connect.
Good Luck with that.
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October 28th, 2009 at 7:13 am
Everybody has feelings, and when the thought of your friend getting in the car accident enters your mind ,IT HURTS. Just think how it would feel if your Dad the man that Fathered you DIED was there NO MORE FOREVER GONE… Honey you are just angry with him ,sometimes people hurt inside and lash out at the ones they love and as it turns out YOU are the one he loves .He has to recognize his attitude with you,therefore he can channel his anger in a positive way, the physical abuse has already been defeated now its time to defeat the stupid,and emotional before it can’t be mended . When a child thinks that a parent wouldn’t be missed when they parish then there is already depression and it needs to be addressed and harmony needs to be brought back into the home. You need somebody to talk to.Maybe you should get stupid and angry out of the way and have a meeting of the minds with your Dad and talk about whats truly fair.
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