Whenever my son has had a hard day or has a lot of big things to do, he yells at his kids and tells them they can’t do something they made plans to do. He doesn’t really mean it and then lets them do it, but the older child who is 17, says he is driving her crazy. I can understand because he is playing with her mind? What’s wrong with him?
My father did the same thing to me. It didnt change the way I turned out. I just view him as grouchy! I think it would be differant if I where a female. We all know as adults, we tend to seek certain qualities in our partners(when we mature) that our parents carry. When it comes to our daughters, I think we should be more tender on how we communicate with them. Just my opinion.
What is wrong with a father who takes his anger and problems out on his kids??
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September 22nd, 2009 at 11:34 am
its wrong because thats not his kids fault.he needs to rely on jesus. no one can help that problem he needs to ask jesus christ to come into his heart and become his personal lord and savior. its just a simple prayer.he needs to leave his problems at gods feet. jesus christ is the only one who can bring him true happiness.
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September 22nd, 2009 at 12:16 pm
Parents have different ways of handeling their anger. I had to deal with this problem once. My brother had a problem with our father acting out on us. The idea was simular; he would say we couldn’t do something and yet, we were still allowed. A way to handel this stressed, your son should find something else to use as a punching bag. Otherwise, the children can become very rebelious to his ideas and might grow apart from him. He should get a hobby. My dad plays golf (my dad was agressive, so hitting the golf ball helped). I hope that this advice could help you.
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September 22nd, 2009 at 12:28 pm
I think your question is not so much whether it is wrong for your son to take his anger out on his kids – the first answer appears inappropriate, more so if you’re not a Christian!
The problem is that your son needs to learn anger management, i.e., learn to control his anger, and not take it out on his poor innocent kids.
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September 22nd, 2009 at 1:17 pm
My father did the same thing to me. It didnt change the way I turned out. I just view him as grouchy! I think it would be differant if I where a female. We all know as adults, we tend to seek certain qualities in our partners(when we mature) that our parents carry. When it comes to our daughters, I think we should be more tender on how we communicate with them. Just my opinion.
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