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Apr
9
Apr
7
My husband has been diagnosed with borderline personality disorder. People experienced with bpd know that persons with bpd have serious problems experiencing their emotions, which feel overwhelming and even intolerable to them, so they avoid them at all costs. This often results in explosions and emotional outbursts.
Would it help then to tell them that ANY anger is unhealthy, that it is the result of "grandiose self-righteousness" and you should refrain from expressing it at all, so therefore you will eventually be able to "avoid anger altogether"? Shouldn’t he be being taught to experience his emotions and learn to tolerate them and that they will not kill him, that he CAN stand it? Shouldn’t he be learning to deal with emotions, not ignore and repress them?
A therapist is trying to teach my husband to not express his anger as above described but I think it is an utter crock and that it will end in failure because anger is a normal human emotion and at the worst, will result in serious issues from repressing his anger. This therapist also does not believe bpd is a real illness and doesn’t seem to understand the severity of my husband’s illness at all.
Your opinions?
Wow, in fact of what you wrote I think the biggest problem for him are you! I believe he has problems, but if he wanna be healthy he need space to breath, and you take (t)his air. Either you learn to be a softly woman or you leave him alone. I think his mother was a monster like you and always dominate him. And this kind of behavior kill every man. I ask me who is the man in your household, propably you. And that´s fighting against the nature. Forget the feminism, that´s the death for the whole society!
Mar
25
If an individual is really angry at their parents, and it’s come to the point of hatred, however, the individual never or rarely lashes out and just represses their feelings because it’s their parents. Does this cause bigger problems in the future than if they were to lash out at them?
It depends on the person..
But I think it would only hurt the parents feelings and not really do anything.. it is ALWAYS better to talk about things rationally..
And then when you are 18 get yourself a job and get out of the house..
Mar
17
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