Comments on: How to bring my wife back to my home after Anger management? http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management Solve Your Anger Problems Fri, 16 Apr 2010 15:52:26 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: MOMMY http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management/comment-page-1#comment-820 MOMMY Sat, 31 Oct 2009 21:55:59 +0000 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management#comment-820 I usually don't recommend books because I hate it when people recommend them to me, but I honestly wish I could buy "Love & Respect" for every married (and engaged) person I know. So try and hear me out... It states that a woman's driving need is to feel loved and when she feels loved she feels happy. A man's driving need is to feel respect and when he feels respected he is happy. When a woman feels unloved she acts out disrespectfully to her husband, and when a man feels disrespected he acts out unloving towards his wife and the crazy cycle begins. If this is setting off any light bulbs for you read on... "I wrote this book out of desperation that was turned into inspiration. As a pastor, I counseled married couples and could not solve their problems. The major problem I heard from wives was, "He doesn't love me." Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love. Many husbands fail to deliver. But as I kept studying Scripture and counseling couples, I finally saw the other half of the equation. Husbands weren't saying it much, but they were thinking, "She doesn't respect me." Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect. Many wives fail to deliver. The result is that five out of ten marriages land in divorce court (and that includes evangelical Christians). As I wrestled with the problem, I finally saw a connection: without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love. Around and around it goes. I call it the Crazy Cycle - marital craziness that has thousands of couples in its grip." I am not even half-ways through the book and workbook, and while my husband is not studying the material with me it has already worked miracles in my no-longer-failing marriage. If you do believe in God I highly recommend this biblically based book. It's not a "religious freak" book or anything but it's nice to know that it is based on things in the bible and not just some theory or pop psychology book, and it's been a #1 seller for over 2 years now... it's working for thousands of couples!<br><b>References : </b><br>"Love & Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs I usually don’t recommend books because I hate it when people recommend them to me, but I honestly wish I could buy "Love & Respect" for every married (and engaged) person I know. So try and hear me out…

It states that a woman’s driving need is to feel loved and when she feels loved she feels happy. A man’s driving need is to feel respect and when he feels respected he is happy. When a woman feels unloved she acts out disrespectfully to her husband, and when a man feels disrespected he acts out unloving towards his wife and the crazy cycle begins.

If this is setting off any light bulbs for you read on…

"I wrote this book out of desperation that was turned into inspiration. As a pastor, I counseled married couples and could not solve their problems. The major problem I heard from wives was, "He doesn’t love me." Wives are made to love, want to love, and expect love. Many husbands fail to deliver. But as I kept studying Scripture and counseling couples, I finally saw the other half of the equation. Husbands weren’t saying it much, but they were thinking, "She doesn’t respect me." Husbands are made to be respected, want respect, and expect respect. Many wives fail to deliver. The result is that five out of ten marriages land in divorce court (and that includes evangelical Christians).

As I wrestled with the problem, I finally saw a connection: without love from him, she reacts without respect; without respect from her, he reacts without love. Around and around it goes. I call it the Crazy Cycle – marital craziness that has thousands of couples in its grip."

I am not even half-ways through the book and workbook, and while my husband is not studying the material with me it has already worked miracles in my no-longer-failing marriage.

If you do believe in God I highly recommend this biblically based book. It’s not a "religious freak" book or anything but it’s nice to know that it is based on things in the bible and not just some theory or pop psychology book, and it’s been a #1 seller for over 2 years now… it’s working for thousands of couples!
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"Love & Respect" by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs

]]> By: Monider http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management/comment-page-1#comment-819 Monider Sat, 31 Oct 2009 21:05:59 +0000 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management#comment-819 I thought it was your husband who was begging you to come back after one month. Did you have a sex change?..<br><b>References : </b><br> I thought it was your husband who was begging you to come back after one month. Did you have a sex change?..
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]]> By: mjohnson1422 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management/comment-page-1#comment-818 mjohnson1422 Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:48:59 +0000 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management#comment-818 She is not with you because she does not trust you. She has no idea when you will lose your temper again. You have to earn her trust and that will only come with time and consistency. You can't rush this and it maybe months before she is ready to be with you again. You caused the problem so now you have to be patient with her.<br><b>References : </b><br> She is not with you because she does not trust you. She has no idea when you will lose your temper again. You have to earn her trust and that will only come with time and consistency. You can’t rush this and it maybe months before she is ready to be with you again. You caused the problem so now you have to be patient with her.
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]]> By: lilgirlfatman10467 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management/comment-page-1#comment-817 lilgirlfatman10467 Sat, 31 Oct 2009 20:01:59 +0000 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management#comment-817 I REALLY DON'T LIKE WOMAN BEATER BUT IF YOU THINK THE ANGER MANAGEMENT HAS HELP SOME YOU SHOULD GET HER INVOLVED TO PROVE TO HER YOU ARE WORKING ON GETTING YOUR SELF TOGETHER BUT BELIEVE ME IN JUST 1 MONTH IS NOT ENOUGH TIME TO GET YOUR SELF TOGETHER YOU ARE FEELIN THE PAIN OF MISSING HER AND YOUR CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD SAY ANYTHING AT THIS POINT WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS KEEP GOING TO THE CLASS SEEK OUT OTHER PROGRAMS YOU CAN DO TO HELP GET YOUR SELF IN ORDER BECAUSE ONE THING YOUR WIFE NOR YOUR KIDS NEED TO BE IN A HOUSE HOLD WITH A SO CALLED MAN WHO CAN'T CONTROL HIS ANGER. SOMEONE WHO IS SUPPOSE TO PROTECT THEM FROM HARM NOT HURT THEM SO YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT FIRST BEFORE YOU EVER THINK ABOUT GETTING ANGER AT YOU WIFE OR EVEN AROUND OUR PRECIOUS LITTLE CHILDREN WHO DIDN'T ASK TO BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD. PEACE SEXY<br><b>References : </b><br> I REALLY DON’T LIKE WOMAN BEATER BUT IF YOU THINK THE ANGER MANAGEMENT HAS HELP SOME YOU SHOULD GET HER INVOLVED TO PROVE TO HER YOU ARE WORKING ON GETTING YOUR SELF TOGETHER BUT BELIEVE ME IN JUST 1 MONTH IS NOT ENOUGH TIME TO GET YOUR SELF TOGETHER YOU ARE FEELIN THE PAIN OF MISSING HER AND YOUR CHILDREN SO YOU WOULD SAY ANYTHING AT THIS POINT WHAT YOU NEED TO DO IS KEEP GOING TO THE CLASS SEEK OUT OTHER PROGRAMS YOU CAN DO TO HELP GET YOUR SELF IN ORDER BECAUSE ONE THING YOUR WIFE NOR YOUR KIDS NEED TO BE IN A HOUSE HOLD WITH A SO CALLED MAN WHO CAN’T CONTROL HIS ANGER. SOMEONE WHO IS SUPPOSE TO PROTECT THEM FROM HARM NOT HURT THEM SO YOU NEED TO THINK ABOUT THAT FIRST BEFORE YOU EVER THINK ABOUT GETTING ANGER AT YOU WIFE OR EVEN AROUND OUR PRECIOUS LITTLE CHILDREN WHO DIDN’T ASK TO BE BROUGHT INTO THIS WORLD.

PEACE SEXY
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]]> By: BLOWHOT http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management/comment-page-1#comment-816 BLOWHOT Sat, 31 Oct 2009 19:53:59 +0000 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management#comment-816 let them be away from you for another a month or more. She will realise and come back. How long she can stay with her brother without you. After all a loving husband and father for kids is needed the most during time of crisis for her too. This answer is suitable if your question is true in its senses.<br><b>References : </b><br> let them be away from you for another a month or more. She will realise and come back. How long she can stay with her brother without you. After all a loving husband and father for kids is needed the most during time of crisis for her too. This answer is suitable if your question is true in its senses.
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]]> By: JadeyOz http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management/comment-page-1#comment-815 JadeyOz Sat, 31 Oct 2009 19:40:59 +0000 http://www.anger-problems.com/anger-management-for-children/how-to-bring-my-wife-back-to-my-home-after-anger-management#comment-815 your name is missexyrenatta but your the husband? who's more confused ?<br><b>References : </b><br> your name is missexyrenatta but your the husband? who’s more confused ?
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