Anger Problems ?

I have 3 children. A teenage daughter, a 12 year-old son, and another 7 year-old son. My youngest has been having anger management issues. At our swim club, he plays in the tennis classes. He is typically the youngest, and so sometimes the older kids joke around with him. This gets him very angry. He doesn’t like being treated like a "little kid." He bares his teeth and snarls at them when they do things like this. I don’t know what to do. These kids aren’t teasing him, really. They just say something like, "Hey, what’s up buddy?" and he gets very angry!
He also gets very angry when he is losing. He and my 12 year-old son are very competitive with each other. They both are very involved in sports. When they are playing with each other, if my youngest is losing, he immediately gets very angry and possibly violent. He might throw something around the room, or go after my other son, trying to hurt him. He doesn’t think anything of the fact that his brother is 5 years olde
older than him, and he is smaller than his older brother, so of course he isn’t going to beat him in the things they do together. This competitive anger also applies in situations like board games and bowling, where it doesn’t matter at all! I

older than him, and he is smaller than his older brother, so of course he isn’t going to beat him in the things they do together. This competitive anger also applies in situations like board games and bowling, where it doesn’t matter at all!
My husband and I have repeatedly punished him for these acts, wheter it’s going to his room or missing activities. He doesn’t stop this behavior and I don’t know what to do anymore! He has also started to pick up swear words from my older children, although they do not say them often in front of him. He has been severely punished when saying these words in front of other people when he is angry. I have asked my older children not to swear in front of him.
What should I do?

Have you tried SPANKING

of course not

what is the idea here? how old is this idea? and what is the "Term" used in pscyhology about this?

how common this is? how people do this? and how they are or seem to others DURING usually?

and how many people have "unresovled anger" from their past? how it affects them and their attitude and state of mind?

can repressed anger even cause mental problems as well as disease such as cancer?

please explain how asian societies view this subject too if you know

how they "release" this tension in safe, constructive way?

thanks for your answers!

It means that they are trying to resolve this problem….

Everyone who’s tired of other’s sufferings due to their tantrums work on it…. as in they try to curb it…

Some just count till ten, some take deep breaths.. some head for the experts.. depends on how serious it is..

They can be calm, too… just that maybe they get irked up quite easily… and some are always hyper..

yeah.. unresolved anger is generally from their past and the one that’s been repressed…

yes, repressed anger can cause mental illness, too.. Heard of such cases, so I can tell… But no, it doesn’t cause cancer or anything… just that extreme repressions of anger.. for a long period of time, cause it all to come out at a go, one fine day…. so it might turn out into some horrendous act or any mental sickness, but, no, not cancer…

This problem is an arising issue in Asian countries.. More prominent in developed nations and super powers..
Esp seen where work load is more, non- veg food consumption is more and hyper-active life is led…
so super powers are a big target of this..

People vent their spleen by doing yoga and mediation.. listen to soothing, calm music.. talk to their dear ones of their problems(that helps), write blogs or journals.. create vlogs.. some go for the experts(psychiatrist or someone), some take good, nutritious and healthy food and take proper rest and sleep.. some begin doing mind exercises and such…

*Adios*

Does anyone know any anger management techniques used in classes or learnt please? Im 14 and really need to learn to control my anger. If anyones took any classes please tell me what was involved and please dont be mean. Thankyou xx

You should try to develop a positive attitude. Not for when you are angry, over all. For example, next time you get lost don’t think of it as getting lost and wasting time, think of it as a learning expierience and walk away with something from that situation. Or if someone upsets you remember that you can be the bigger person and let it go or keep it in untill you can camly say what you want to say. You don’t have to lose your temper to be heard, remember that.

and in the heat of the moment taking deep breaths and rememeber that you can cool down and resolve the issue soon.

is it possible to overcome this problem with no professional help??
As i realised how much this is affecting my life, my relationship and I think I can finally do it,but im just wondering if its possible to do it on my own or if most of the times that is not possible?

sorry the question should be
if you HAVE a problem….

The answer to your problem will be." Time to let go." absolve yourself from the problem, and start again from scratch.

In other words, walk away.