Anger Problems ?

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He contacted our local children’s aid society, b/c my stepson (8) is just too much for either of us to handle and has some serious disabilities with social skills and anger management. The children’s aid social worker was REALLY nice, she’s calling around for free or subsidized programs for my stepson to attend regularly that are local to us. We gave her my stepson’s mom’s phone number so maybe she could help her find the same programs in her area (lives 1 hour away), b/c the kids spend equal time with both families.

However, instead of being happy that the boy can have local and cost effective help, she’s STILL panicked at the term "children’s aid", although they have several departments and are doing their best to help.

Is she hiding something? We had a good meeting with them, they came to visit and had some great things to say, all in all a really helpful meeting. However, she’s panicked. Makes me feel like she feels that she has something to hide, which is a bit worrying.

Should my husband worry, he wonders what she’s hiding. I think he should just let the social worker handle it and see what happens.
She’s already mentioned "going back to the courts", we’re not sure for what exactly, but seems like a really panicked and fishy response.

I think she may just feel a bit insecure about childrens aid. Perhaps she’s heard a horror story or isn’t that confident in their procedures. I doubt it’s because of anything suspicious unless you suspect the child is being mistreated or abused. That may be the case if she has a firm hold on NOT going, but I think you just need to approach her with rationale and ask her if she has any issues with this and or/what they are. It may be best for your husband to approach this if you aren’t on speaking terms with the mother.

why for this?

and would you say that "Resentment" IS caused by negative experiences in the past and "repressed anger"?? which kinds of things usually ? and is same for SOME more than others?

and how repressed anger affects people if they never channel their anger properly? and how is this done supposedly done? and is there a psychological term for this?

how painful for them ? and how most become when "Rechanneling" repressed anger? and which other emotions are often included with this and why? which kinds of conditions are necessary sometimes or often times to have someone with a lot of repressed nervous emotions?

and how long they do this and how they are afterwards?

please explain and describe what you can.

btw, which area of the world are you and how this process is called there and how old is this idea?

thanks for your answers!

Here in the U.S. most psychological experts subscribe to the theory that mental illness is caused by faulty neurotransmitters in the brain. Our medications are designed to help correct these neurotransmitters. Science is coming around to the nfact that mental illness just like physcial illness is based in the biological, i.e. genetics (predispositions for illness and faulty neurotransmitters).

Can a Christian use Buddhist doctrine to deal with their anger management? This is a good website to deal with anger http://www.anger-management-techniques.org
Does it go against Christian doctrine? I don’t think so.

The beauty of Christianity is that you can practice anything that would better your life without having to worship anything or anyone but God Almighty.

Beside the bible tells you how to deal with anger and all emotions and state of minds.